Today from Syria only bad news arrives, the attacks of Turkey with justification “to defeat ISIS” even if to me it seems only a mass devastation of the Kurdish people, in many today as always blamed the United States, which always according to many have supplied the guns to the Turks, Europe that thinks only of how many poor people will come to “bother”, Italy and the nearby coasts that are already counting on how much money will enter the coffers, which make money first skin of poor people, and then pretend not to want them!
My thoughts on this affair are aimed at two things, the first, the millions of children who die, who risk their lives on those damned boats, which are rejected by other nations and which are denied their rights to live a better future. And the second thought goes to those who have made it a trade in the struggle for rights, which has made them kill just this morning, the really bad thing and which they talk about very little in the news, Hevrin Khalaf, was killed two days ago in an ambush, and in the worst way you can know, the car you were traveling on was targeted, by hundreds of bullets, the driver and his bodyguard died instantly, instead she was dragged out from the car raped and stoned.

A violent death, and one that does not wish on anyone, but the young activist was annoying to many, because those who put themselves in the front row, to fight for human rights, especially those of women, annoys many, and so does you enter into the hearts of all others, because Hevrin Khalaf, just 35 years old, was loved not only by the women of his people, but from many nations he admired his work, and his work, he entered politics, and he did not deal only with of women’s rights, but of peaceful coexistence between Kurds and Syrian Christians, say that the attack was claimed by ISIS exponents, and many want to make people believe this considering that it was a non-believer according to them. Everything after Erdogan attacks the Syria to “defeat terrorism” I don’t know much about their politics, but I can only say that Hevrin died unjustly, and that people who do not have many people who expose themselves for their rights, lost someone really important.. someone who gave her life for her people.. rest in peace Hevrin !


International girls day

Every day in the world, millions of girls wake up and face their days in ways that we can’t even imagine, every day in the world these girls face wars, hunger, violence … and their only thought is “I hope to survive” their routine changes very little, unfortunately, because they have no right, they have no voice …

Every day in the world there are girls who are forced to marriages combined with men much older than them, without their will, forced by the families that sell them for a few pennies, and for many the only way to survive is to die .. for no one does anything, for them no one cries and says that we need to improve the world .. they are news that unfortunately are mentioned in the background ..

every day in the world, the “good” one where there are no physical but media wars, the one where we have “emancipated” there are girls, who come to terms with the pros and cons of mediation, there are girls who every day are humiliated by their appearance, humiliated at school, at work, and at home because they must feel inferior .. they must be inferior!

Every day in the world there are girls who dream big, but who have to come to terms with a fairly clear reality .. “you are female and you can’t do it” Every day in the world there are women who are humiliated if they have no children and humiliated women if they can’t keep a family going, and women who go out of their way for the family but are humiliated by the society that considers them just simple “housewives”

every day millions of women, girls and boys have to deal with a sexist, retrograde, and unfavorable world, every day they have to fight for their rights and they don’t always succeed .. the right to be Female, to be a girl, to be little girl .. and my goal is to work on this for the future of my niece and all the girls who deserve a better world!

do you really know the meaning of the word discrimination?

today At work I had to reflect a lot on the word DISCRIMINATION, and on the fact that many men don’t know the meaning at all..I think that many people who do not know the true meaning boast of false knowledge .. I happened to have to hear that because the reason for the dismissal was communicated to a person, citing as a cause the failure to make private life and work coincide of the person has made an abuse of discrimination such as to scare people .. and be afraid of being cited .. and even after half an hour of these speeches .. I had to attend a real discriminatory scene .. when two lesbian girls they started kissing,”make them sit back and not see that the children could have been scared.. Whaaaaaaat?!? I was appalled, I knew that catering was one of the most discriminating, sexist environments.. in fact many times I would like to scream, I would like to go away .. because I don’t feel at ease with certain mentalities, many times instead I feel as if I had to fight for the rights of others .. but in the meantime I take gastritis is love, it does not matter in what form, no matter if he or she or two is important .. it is that there is love .. if children teach respect and love they will certainly not be scared as you say .. but they will grow good and loving adults ..!We are in 2020, we buy phones that cost $ 1000, but we criticize those who travel, we are in 2020 and there is still sexist DISCRIMINATION on the physical presence at work, but we worry about people who deserve dismissals because they are unable to work .. we are in 2020 and you are fat you cannot consider yourself as equal to others .. you cannot wear dresses or skirts because they are inappropriate! we are in 2020, and if you are good in your work you get “kicked in the face” you are treated badly by everyone and paid little, but if you are one who does nothing, you are praised, paid well and you can take for the bottom who does more of you!

So I wonder .. but do you really know the word Discrimination? or do you use it at random to show the people or your subordinates that you sometimes shout with new words? I want to reiterate that:








I hope that people start to think before talking.. this is not discrimination but common sense!

Mfw: Milan is always the Queen of the party..

Yes! Everyone knows how much I love NY, I say it all the time, everywhere, but on one thing I am convinced .. and that is that Milan, even if by choice of a New Yorker it is not proclaimed the capital of fashion, it is surely the queen! nothing to take away from the great and talented American designers, but ours are worldwide, Armani, Ferretti, Fendi, Dolce and Gabbana, Gucci, Prada or Ferragamo and many others … when on an American Red carpet, you hear the diva say I wear a Italian dress .. then you understand that we are the holiday makers who support everything! Sorry to Anna Wintour, a woman that I admire so much but I love Italian fashion the most .. As for the wonderful collections, of course there are those who stand out more, some even if not present on the calendar of the National Chamber of Fashion, he managed to steal the show from many, those who had to prove that even without the legendary Karl he was still an important name … well I start from this, the Maison Fendi, has shown that even without Karl Lagerfeld he still has so much to say, and he did it in the best way!

The collections for next spring / summer 2020 have all been wonderful, many inspired by the 70s, many ultra-colored, the return of shoulder pads, jackets, trench coats, and suits, of all shapes and colors!the floral prints by Versace, which paid tribute to the dress worn 20 years ago by Jennifer Lopez at the Grammys, and those by D&G that literally enchanted me, the serious looks of Max Mara against the whimsical looks of Moschino, but also the too understated elegance of Armani, against the boho Chic style of Alberta Ferretti, Milan to my mind has triumphed .. presenting the most beautiful collections!

Good things take time…

Maybe yes, maybe not, because we dreamers, we put our heart and soul into everything we believe in, but …

how much we are willing to wait ..?

personally I am undecided about the answer, for many things I have waited and I still wait a long time, for others I am “hungry for knowledge”

love, friendship, realization as a woman … how much are we willing to wait for all this? I can say that if now I have lost hope in love, if I see only negativity in the word love it is precisely because I waited for something beautiful to come, something that was worth all this waiting … instead waiting I could see and notice things in others that I for me I do not want .. I wanted something that maybe does not exist.I am waiting for something unreal, for the love that you see in the movies, in the friendships you see in the movies, you dream too much and travel a lot of imagination, that’s why I get real trips in my travels, ten days away from everything and everyone, where if you know someone you carry it in your heart but you don’t expect anything because you will be far away 7000 km after ten days however, you have lived every moment .. I often lose hopes in the world and in the human race, but with the same quickness I tell myself .. it will come, the right moment, the right person, the right way, slowly things will go the right way .. I am a dreamer and I want to believe .. to believe in an impossible love, in an unlikely future and so much more because this is me and this is my way of seeing the world..


Traveling alone is becoming my best way to love my life and enjoy the moments of solitude that I need to recharge 100% before returning to work, this year I decided to travel around the United States, and so after SanFrancisco which I already talked about, in August I went to Los Angeles, which is perhaps the biggest city I’ve ever visited after NY, Los Angeles is a county, with Santa Monica Venice and Malibu that make you dream, with Hollywood that you makes a dive and Downtown feel that makes you want more and more to move to the United States.I left Milan on August 23rd, my luck was to find a direct flight to Los Angeles, 12 hours long, but comfortable.
When I arrived I headed to the hotel that was in Hollywood in front of the tlc chinese theater, yes! In the center of Hollywood on the walk of fame, a perfect place to stay because you are at the center of everything, and everything to see is just a subway ride away, my hotel is among the most famous in California if not all over the world, very place loved by the stars, the hotel where the Oscars took place for the first time, The Hollywood Roosvelt hotel was the most beautiful place to stay, my luck was to be customer for many years and so I received this secret offer that made me spend only € 2000

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I could talk to you for hours about the hotel where I was because I loved it at first sight, I felt like a diva, I felt happy from the first night until the last..But the post is centered on the journey so I tell you that the first night, I spent wandering around the walk of fame, my area was full, full of restaurants, pubs, and fast food, so it’s useless to tell you that for dinner I stayed in my area, but the post is centered on the journey so I tell you that the first night, I spent wandering around the walk of fame, my area was full, full of restaurants, pubs, and fast food, so it’s useless to tell you that for dinner I stayed in my area, the first day I spent on the tourist bus, from which I finished taking notes on places to visit, the bus left from Hollywood via Beverly hills and Santa Monica, it seemed like a dream to be there, the second I spent the day on the beach, I went back to Santa Monica, and wet my feet in the ocean, a unique feeling, I even got burned, I did the morning in Santa Monica and the afternoon in Venice, where I found the canals similar to our Italian Venice, where I found nice little shops, eclectic and nice people, and places that have remained etched in my mind, like postcards to think about when life at work becomes heavy.On the third day I decided that I had to go back a little child, and I went to the Disney California adventure park, I was there all day and it was beautiful and exciting, I dream of going back and bringing my nieces, but on the fourth day I wanted to see how Americans see CINEMA, and at Universal Studios, was the confirmation, that for Americans cinema is almost a religion, a divinity .. I saw some sets, like those of “the day after tomorrow” with Tom Cruise, the Shark, fast and furious and many others, for the fifth day I went away, going to San Diego, or rather with I booked a tour that took me to LA JOLLA and SAN DIEGO, and also gave me two new friends, San Diego I had read that it was the best place to live in the united states and after having visited it I can assure you, even here I visited a hotel very close to Marilyn Monroe, in fact at the HOTEL DEL CORONADO they filmed in 1958, the movie “Some like it hot”, but San Diego it was also the scene of many other films like Top Gun, yes precisely that film, making me fall once again into the world of cinema. San Diego struck me very much, from the exit of the motorway to the return. the whole city is wonderful and I hope to return one day to stop myself more. The day after I dedicated myself to discover Downtown, and I started from SKYSPACE from where I admired all of Los Angeles, and I went up and down the city, passing through the Grammy Museum, the Moca, The broad and the Walt Disney Concert Hall , then I went to the Union Station, at City Hall, in ten days I didn’t stop for a moment and I fell in love with every corner I visited in the city..

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It was not my favorite city visited in the States, but I can tell you that my love for the United States is increasing more and more and even if this trip has left me all month in the bill I am happy to have done so .. and now I look forward to November that will take me back home to my NY and discover a new city in Philadelphia.


HELLO LONDON, is one of my favorite place, i love London and i am so happy talking about it.

This month is famous for fashion weeks, as everybody knows, start in NY and continue to London Milan and Paris , Sept. 13-18th , only five days for London , and this is really sad. London boasts many designers, such as Vivienne Westwood, David Koma,Burberry , Victoria Beckham and Alexa Chung just to name a few..I have seen many beautiful collections, some a little too excessive, others very sober and others .. things already seen!among the beautiful collections my favorite is that of Temperley London, tulle, shiny fabrics, punk look and many transparencies, this is spring 2020 according to London ..however here comes some of the pieces, outfits and accessories that I liked .. and stay connected for the next post! MFW back at home!

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Space for curvy, even this year in NY many curvy models were seen on the catwalks of fashion week, for the collections they all showed with beautiful creative and original collections, I madly loved the Zendaya collection for Tommy Hilfiger, inspired by the 70s , my favorite, I also loved Marc Jacobs and a lot of Christian Siriano who created ultra-colorful collections like mine, and perfect for every woman..I really noticed a lot of inspirations from the 70s, confirming the fact that perhaps the best decade for fashion is absolutely, these below are some of the wonderful clothes that have been shown at NYFw Spring / summer 2020!

Viaggiare da sole..

Agli occhi di molti può sembrare una pazzia ,ma agli occhi di una donna può essere solo coraggio e passione.

Ho 33 anni , e nella vita un po’ per amore di chi mi circonda, un po’ per rassegnazione ho rinunciato a molti sogni, ma se c’è una cosa che ho deciso negli ultimi 7 anni è che voglio viaggiare ,girare il mondo poter mettere migliaia di timbri sul mio passaporto!

Ho iniziato a viaggiare da sola nel 2011, la prima tappa fu in “casa” Firenze ,cinque giorni nella città che tanto adoro (ci sono tornata altre 4 volte) mi ha entusiasmato molto la cosa e ho deciso che ci avrei provato ancora magari in Europa, e visto che ero stata da poco a Londra per la seconda volta ma non avevo visitato la città come volevo decisi che ci sarei tornata.. ed è stato a Londra che ho capito quanto amassi viaggiare da sola, svegliarsi quando si vuole ,fare o meno colazione prepararsi come si vuole e uscire vivere la città al massimo senza che nessuno ti dica no ma io non voglio, viaggiare da soli da anche la possibilità a noi stessi di riprendere un po’ quel rapporto complicato che abbiamo con noi permette di ricarburare le energie perse durante l’anno.

Dopo aver trascorso 6 meravigliosi giorni a Londra da sola, ho deciso che ero pronta ,e così è stato dopo Londra ci sono state tante altre città, europee e americane ,sono stata a NY due volte da sola, ho visitato una ghiacciata Chicago e una Boston con le lucine di Natale, sono stata a Washington nell’ultimo mese di presidenza di Barack Obama, mi sono innamorata della storia di Boston e dell’architettura di Chicago , a tal punto da farmi una promessa, visitare tutti gli Stati Uniti prima dei quarant’anni.

Quest’anno mi sono regalata San Francisco, città straordinaria dalle 1000 culture e a breve partirò per Los Angeles e San Diego ,per fine anno vorrei tornare a NY e aggiungere Philadelphia alla lista..

Ovviamente per viaggiare tranquilla da sola evito orari bizzarri e locali particolari, ovviamente un po’ di timore c’è sempre ma conosco me stessa e l’unica cosa che voglio da una vacanza è relax e conoscenza.. studio in ogni minimo dettaglio ogni cosa dei miei viaggi arrivi , dove andare come muovermi ogni minimo dettaglio perché è diventato come una valvola di sfogo, dalla monotonia del lavoro .. quindi pronte per il prossimo viaggio? Destinazione? Beh io LA 😊buone vacanze!

Da che parte stare?

Un vero leader cerca di tenere armonia non fa preferenze e favoritismo è per questo che l’Italia è un paese che sta andando a rotoli, perché non evince la meritocrazia perché se lavori bene vieni surclassato da chi sa fare il lecchino da chi si sa vendere per due spicci in meno..

Quando ho lasciato , anzi rettifico ,sono scappata da un paesino di provincia del napoletano per poi lasciare definitivamente Napoli nel settembre 2003 , l’ho fatto perché avevo visto con i miei occhi come genitori entravano negli istituti a pagare in contanti gli insegnanti per far promuovere i figli , e all’epoca chi pagava erano i cosiddetti figli di nessuno, ragazzi come me, che avevano mamma casalinga e papà lavoratore nei campi, più facevi sacrifici più ti impegnavi e più venivi messo un gradino dietro tutti gli altri perché non eri NESSUNO, le stesse cose le ho viste anche a Napoli ,anche se fortunatamente non le ho vissute in prima persona, e ho capito anzi ero arrivata alla conclusione che era colpa di gente retrograda che non guardava al futuro e di uno stato totalmente assente ! Quando sono arrivata a Milano avevo 17 anni, sogni distrutti in una mano e poche speranze di un futuro migliore ,con gli anni mi sono dedicata anima e corpo ad un lavoro che agli inizi odiavo ,ma che facevo perché mi dava la possibilità di essere indipendente economicamente, e con gli anni i cambiamenti di mansioni mi hanno portato a guadagnare di più, e ammetto che all’inizio di tutti questi cambiamenti mi piaceva molto ciò che facevo ma con gli anni ho capito che anche se guadagni bene o quasi .. se non hai più motivazioni diventa solo una monotonia H24. Però anche se monotono mi sono sempre dedicata anima e corpo al mio lavoro anche quando altri mi dicevano non lo fare che non ne vale la pena… Così mi sono ritrovata a vedere dopo anni le stesse cose di quando andavo a scuola anche se in maniera diversa, io che negli anni ho lottato firmando petizioni scrivendo di questo argomento a più non posso mi sono ritrovata a rivedere ancora una volta i favoritismi sottobanco ,questa volta mascherati a ruffianaggine ,a boicottamento nei confronti dei colleghi , a menzogne da parte dei cosiddetti leader che per 10 euro venderebbero anche la loro anima..

Quindi mi sono posta una domanda, se questo succede sia al nord che al sud , i favoritismi che si facevano e si fanno in piccoli istituti della provincia di Napoli e quelli che si fanno ora in aziende del centro di Milano da cosa sono dettati?

Ovviamente dallo stato in cui viviamo! Perché gli italiani sono un po’ come i bambini guardano a ciò che fanno gli adulti, e in questo caso gli italiani guardano a ciò che fanno i politici, siamo diventati un popolo di omertosi ,bigotti ,immorali e venduti!

Se vediamo qualcosa che non va , una cosa ingiusta ci voltiamo dall’altro lato perché tanto non ci riguarda, pensiamo che per fare carriera ci vogliono le conoscenze , così i ragazzi che fanno sacrifici studiano si pagano gli studi, e si impegnano al massimo verranno sempre emarginati, in aziende dove i lavoratori si fanno in quattro senza fermarsi ,dando l’anima per un lavoro che gli permette di sopravvivere di questi tempi ,si vedono negati i loro diritti ,si vedono surclassare da chi invece non fa niente ma con la faccia tosta riesce ad ottenere ciò che vuole..

Chiedersi da che parte stare in questo paese è quasi inutile, per convenienza direi fate bene a stare tutti dalla stessa parte.. ma personalmente sono stanca di un posto dove non evince il rispetto la moralità la meritocrazia.. io sono per chi ha sbagliato paghi, sono per il lavoro nobilita l’uomo non lo umilia, sono per il “se sai fare le cose vieni premiato” a me la gente che sente di dover ricevere tutto ciò che vuole solo perché ci onora della loro presenza, io sono per il giusto per la MORALE la gente che vende se stessa per avere le cose mi dà la nausea, sono così da quando ero una bambina e non mi pento di essere così, non mi pento di essere cresciuta con dei valori che in ITALIA non vengono rispettati, oggi se vuoi fare soldi facili vai dalla Defilippi fingi una storia diventi famoso e vai con i quattrini a palate , e i giovani cosa imparano da tutti questo?! Niente! Lo sport si sceglie in base alle retribuzioni più alte ed ecco che in Italia vogliono fare tutti i calciatori! La politica è tutto un mangia mangia e ci vanno cani e porci a governare , e si fanno le leggi per i propri interessi ed ecco che tutti gli imprenditori senza cervello votano chi promette di abbassare Irpef ma aumenta l’iva o viceversa tanto l’importante è risparmiare!

Non siamo un popolo che lotta per le cose giuste ,agli scioperi si va al mare si esce a fare shopping, se devi fare una visita se hai i soldi la fai dopodomani se sei povero e devi per forza andare tramite mutua ecco che ti prenotano le visite nel 2020.. Ecco perché la maggior parte delle volte mi sento fuori luogo, a casa come a lavoro come in giro .. ecco perché ogni volta che posso me ne vado all’estero.. perché nella maggior parte delle volte vedo ciò per il quale combatto senza risultati…